Family management
Create your family, invite members, approve requests and control who can manage Secret Santa draws and wishlists.
Secret Santa made simple
for your whole family.
Selfster keeps track of Secret Santa draws, wishlists, kids’ birthdays and family gifts — in one private place, just for your family.
- 🎁 Partner-safe Secret Santa assignments
- 🎂 Wishlists for adults and kids
- 🔒 Passkeys and one-time passwords for security
Secret Santa snapshot
- • Families: Organise by family group
- • Partner rules: Never draw your partner
- • Kids: Include kids in the draw too
- • Lock the draw and notify everyone
Wishlists that stay in sync
- • Your own wishlist per event
- • Kids’ birthday lists
- • Mark gifts as purchased to avoid doubles
- • Private to your family only
Everything your family needs in one place
Designed for phones first, with a clean dashboard on desktop.
Kids & birthdays
Add each child to your family, track birthdays and keep a running list of ideas so you’re never stuck the week before.
Private family chat
A simple chat bar shared only with your family — perfect for “What size is he now?” without blowing the surprise.
Strong security
Passkeys, one-time passwords and email notifications keep your family’s details locked down without being annoying.
How it works
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1. Create your account
Sign up once with your email and full name.
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2. Start your family
Create a family, invite everyone and add the kids.
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3. Run your Secret Santa
Set the rules, run the draw and let Selfster handle the rest.
Create a family now
You can import your existing Selfster V1 users later.